storyteller. chef. author. Faith curator.
After walking away from traditional spaces and chasing models that didn’t quite fit, I realized my identity wasn’t in what I did, it was in who I am. Today, I create conversations that blend music, food, faith, and real talk to open safe spaces for belonging, healing, and purpose.
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sidekicks & stoolz: a personal blog by jermaine abdual
Welcome to Sidekicks & Stoolz, a blog where purpose meets identity. Through personal stories, practical wisdom, and fresh perspectives, Jermaine tackles topics like faith, personal growth, cultural challenges, and resilience. Each post is designed to help you embrace your unique story, overcome obstacles, and transform struggles into strength.
GET THE BOOKs
Turtles Win Rabbit Races: from fable to fruition is an honest look at the moments that shaped me. This is more than a memoir. It’s an invitation to embrace your own pace, trust God’s hand in your story, and discover the purpose hidden in your journey. Order your copy today and start the journey.
Forgiveness is the Fragrance That the Violet Sheds on the Heel That Has Crushed it is a deeply personal exploration of betrayal, trauma, and the surprising beauty that can emerge from brokenness. Adapted from my own story, first shared in Turtles Win Rabbit Races, this work picks up where the memoir left off, moving from survival to healing, from hurt to purpose.
let’s create something together
I design culinary experiences for intimate gatherings, meaningful celebrations, and tables where stories unfold. If you’re looking for more than just a meal, let’s talk.
The Work
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Personal Blog & Culture
Sidekicks & Stoolz is my personal blog, a place for conversations about faith, identity, and culture. Here, I unpack life through storytelling, honest dialogue, and practical wisdom. It’s where everyday moments meet deeper meaning. Pull up a stool.
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Teaching & Gatherings
Transformation doesn’t happen alone. That’s why I create spaces (workshops, events, and small groups) where people can explore faith, identity, and purpose together. These gatherings are designed to spark conversation, growth, and community.
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Food & Storytelling
I use food as a language. I create curated dinners, cooking demos, and Pop-Up gatherings where food becomes identity, heritage, and storytelling. Every meal tells a story, and I use food to nurture a sense of belonging, reminding us that life is shared around the table.
Every event we host is designed with intention, from the atmosphere we create to the way each session flows.
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